Independence Day... being independent???

Happy July 4th. Another year of independence. A year for embracing my independence... Freedom, autonomy, liberty, sovereignty... the state of being free from the control or power of another.

Wars and bloodshed flood our history books. Wars and bloodshed for freedom. Slavery is a cruel and horrible crime. It is wrong. No matter what the circumstances. Owning the life of another; it just makes me cringe. So why is it when it comes to relationships some do not see that they are slaves???

Independence is a good thing. Don't be dependent on someone. Be able to live your life for you and no one else. After all it is your life. Although it is not January 1st, how about changing your life now. This July 4th if you are in a crummy relationship, if you are in a controlling relationship, an abusive relationship, GET OUT!!! Believe me it is not worth it. Live single, it is not all that bad. Embrace it, love it.

I have been writing about my relationships, the good and the bad, and I have had more people come to me for advise concerning their relationships. And all I can really say, you need to be happy. For me I am happy. Yes I am lonely, but I am happy. Lonely is not as bad as it seems, its relative. Fill your life with people and activities. Make the most out of what you have been given.

Freedom is great and scary all at the same time... the thing to remember is when you are in a healthy relationship you still have your freedom, don't let anyone ever take that away from you. Celebrate July 4th... be independent this year.

I am Living Single in Texas...